The day I met my first Ticos |
Since April there
have been 30-some Costa Ricans living in our small community
primarily made up of folk of European descent. They are seasonal
workers at ABC Truss who over the next few weeks will be returning to
their families and their native country. This past Sunday we threw
them a farewell party to thank them for living and working in our
small town.
Barbecue & gathering with our Belizean neighbors in 2017 |
We miss our Belizean friends |
I met Elisardo in
April when he and four of the other guys were biking down our street.
I had just been informed that ABC's new guys were in town and with
one look I knew these must be some of them. I had just pulled into my
driveway so I hopped out of my van and walked into the street to
introduce myself as they passed our home. We made acquaintances, I
learned where they were staying, I oriented them how to get to the
VFW tank (which they wanted to pose in front of) and before they took
off I invited them to come to our worship gathering on Sunday (as
well as directing them to where St. Boniface was as many of them are
Catholic.) Elisardo and another one of the “Ticos” (as they
prefer to refer to themselves) showed up and has been a part of us
ever since. A former body guard and a lover of Jesus he very quickly
fit in with us thanks to Mike.
Mike, while one of us, was born in Peru but mostly grew up in Chicago. He is fairly fluent in Spanish (in fact, compared to the rest of us he is our resident expert.) He and Eli became fast friends and I think because he saw the need Mike offered to lead a bilingual worship set once a month if only for our favorite Tico's benefit if for nothing else. What's more he and Randy, one of our elders,
Barb at work with the ESL class |
Interest in the
class faded primarily because this past fall the guys were working
long hours and with only one day off in seven it was challenging for
them to commit to bettering themselves while also needing to get
their laundry and shopping done. Beyond waving at them whenever they
passed our home or church and calling out 'Buenos dias' or 'Buenos
tardes', it was the extent of my connection with most of them for the
last few months.
Mike & Ronda and their Tico friends at Thanksgiving |
My idea of this
farewell gathering was a simple one – it would involve a worship
gathering with singing, preaching and prayer in Spanish and English
followed by an authentic Costa Rican meal. We'd invite all the guys.
Mike would lead worship and be my translator as well. We'd pray over
them and then send them out with a blessing. End of story – or so I
thought.
Kale opening up the gathering |
While originally
the plan had been for the meal to be pot-luck, the week before the
farewell Monica, the woman I had asked to head up the meal called and
informed me that she and fellow-chef, Joy, had conferred and thought
it would be a whole lot simpler if they could cook the meal. All they
needed was $300 for ingredients. Their logic was totally
understandable (I mean, rice and beans is not a staple meal around
here) but cash flow at our fellowship was definitely a challenge. All
we could do is put it out there and trust that the money for the meal
would come in.
Meanwhile, because
of a post I had placed on Facebook, Colleen, a woman I've known since
she was a teen and married to a Venezuelan living in neighboring
Cameron up the road from us, offered to translate and if necessary
help lead Spanish worship on that Sunday. At the same time, a guy
named Zabdiel (or simply Z for short) from Red Cedar, while
apologizing for not being able to come himself, said he would send
his parents instead. Kale, one of our worship leaders, let me know
that he could lead at least one song in Spanish. At the same time,
the leaders of an intrachurch discipleship class (aka the
Discipleship Training Class) held this year at Faith Baptist had the
idea of sending their students and staff to mingle with the guys
during the meal and a fellowship time to follow. I said 'yes' to
everyone (beggars can't be choosers after all) yet lacked the clarity
on what the morning and afternoon would exactly look like. The only
thing I was certain of was that God loves the foreigner living among
us and wants us to bless them and so one way or another, by hook or
by crook, this gathering was going to happen. These men, with God's
help, would be blessed.
Between the hat
being passed at Refuge and at Faith Bapitst the Sunday before, the
$300 needed was collected. I got a list of all names of the Ticos
from the Operations Manager at ABC as well as where they all lived
and on the Wednesday before hand delivered 33 invitations. But on the
Saturday night before the gathering it snowed three inches and as
promised my worship leader from the Cities called and cancelled. We'd
have a service and a meal but at the moment my 'despidida'-idea
seemed to be just a bunch of random pieces of fabric lying together
in a heap on the floor.
But here's what
happened and for any person accustomed to being a part of the Lord's
work, none of what happened is probably a bit surprising. Because out
of these assorted pieces of cloth – some selected songs in Spanish
from a back-up worship leader, a Spanish couple whom I met fifteen
minutes before the gathering began, and some remaining ambivalence on
my part on just how the service should flow - the Lord wove together
a beautiful quilt of blessing.
The despedida opened with a couple of songs in English led by Kale followed by your standard meet-and-greet time as well as offering and announcements. I then welcomed Colleen, our translator, to join Kale on the platform and together they led three songs bilingually with Kale leading in English and Colleen in Spanish. Though they had just met a few minutes before the gathering they made it look like they did this every week. I then introduced France (pronounced Francee), Z's mother, who proceeded to share a 10-minute exhortation from John 10 in Spanish about Christ coming to give us abundant life – now and eternally. She clearly had done this sort of thing before. I then shared some thoughts pertinent to all of us from Leviticus 19 as well as a brief exhortation from Luke 15. Just as they are anxious to get home to their families in Costa Rica and their loved ones there are eager for their return so Father God is longing to see any of us who may be away from His family. All of this I had to do in bite size sentences, of course, so Colleen could translate for me.
Barb shares some parting words |
Instructing the guys that they were to lead the way, they proceeded downstairs to the fellowship hall where Monica and Joy had prepared a meal of arroz con pollo (chicken and rice), gallo pinto (beans and rice), ceviche(seafood dip), arroz con leche(rice pudding), and tres leches (three milk cake). We were packed to the gills and soon our stomachs would be the same in the Jesus-style of at the very least twelve baskets of left-overs. After dinner, the guys were invited back up into the sanctuary and at this point the DTC-ers took over. For the next hour or so they split the guys and their students up randomly and played a variety of “minute-to-win-it” games that everyone seemed to enjoy. Fortunately, there were two gringos in that group that were fluent in Spanish to translate.
The DTC folks had made up gift bags for
each of the guys with their name on it. Inside there were home made
cookies, bars and treats, a homemade bookmark with their name and
Scripture on it and a tabbed Spanish Bible, marking important
salvation verses. At the close, Brian, a high school teacher in Eau
Claire, shared his faith story with the guys and explained, via the
translators, how the tabbed Bible worked. When he was done and there
seemed nothing more to say, Sarah, a twenty-something gal suggested
they call the guys up and let all of them pray over them. They came
forward and circled up and allowed the gringos to pray prayers of
blessing upon them.
It was, all in all, a great day and the
eighteen or so Ticos who had come to our despedida seemed sincerely
touched by the generosity they had experienced. Many of them made a
point of coming to me to thank me for inviting them to the gathering.
I was simply grateful that by all of us pooling our efforts together
the nation of Costa Rica on that Sunday had been blessed by the
gringos of the little northern 'burb of Chetek, Wisconsin and
surrounding area.
Granted it was just a handful of us and a handful
of them but it's through gatherings such as these that we are
reminded that we have far more in common than our language
differences would suggest. In a day where there's a lot of angry
rhetoric and harangues in the air on building or not building a wall
and stopping or not stopping waves of caravans, disciples of Jesus
need to be about building bridges so that all may experience the
Father's warm welcome to all of us whether we hail from north or south of the border.
Oscar & me |
Experiencing a snow storm and walking out on the water was pretty cool for Elisardo and the guys |
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